Got up in my pretty usual mode of being totally awake and unable to stay in bed, so, I did the right thing, I got up.
After brushing my teeth and such, I went downstairs, started the coffee process, and then went into the family room to check on the progress of the upgrading of my iPhone software. I am convinced I have an iTunes/laptop issue and it was still “processing” just as it was when I went to bed. So I force a shutdown and reconnected. At this point it said I needed to do a “system restore” which was just what I expected. I tried more than once and now it says there is some unknown error. This is why I don’t like to update, this has been happening since my previous phone and it is making my laptop (which I am writing on) look more suspicious.
Once Mikey gets up I am going to grab my netbook, used mainly for travel, and see if I can find success restoring my iPhone with its iTunes. Since Mikey’s possessions are still in California, I have lent him this computer for the time being, it was just sitting around anyway since I am no longer working much for the language lab company, if at all. It has iTunes on it so maybe that will be the answer to my issues.
I can only hope so.
I did get an e-mail from George Washington (my former boss) regarding some training that he wants me to do in Batavia, far west of the city. He had asked me if I had heard from the teachers. Originally I had and fielded their issues by forwarding their concerns to the IT people working for the company. Of late, that is something I do frequently. Then I had heard nothing from the school. He wants me to contact them. I told him I thought we should wait a bit, I know they are anxious to get back to work now that their Windows 7 vs. the language lab software issues are now in check, but they are usually good about contacting me when they need help. I reminded him that it is final exam time, so that is probably why they aren’t following up on it.
Anyway, this morning is not exactly promising to be a fun day.
I may have to hit the Apple Store, once again to deal with those issues if I am unsuccessful with my netbook. The good news here is that today is the game between the Green Bay Packers and the Chicago Bears. I am probably one of the few males around who has no major plans to sit in my easy chair and spend time watching the progress of that contest. I am not into watching sports on TV, something that inhibits my conversations with fellow males. I am finally at a point in my life where my inability to have a conversation about something that doesn’t interest me is no longer an issue. I am who I am. I am remiss here; however, “inability” is the wrong choice of words. I usually just have “passed over” doing somewhat of a fake when I respond to the typical sports’ related questions. I have gotten darn good at it. My sons pretty much follow my path but they do it far better than I do. They have learned just enough to be able to do it more convincingly. Due to college, they might have some interest, anyway, in their alma mater’s teams and actually do watch occasionally. They also have a much better version of the “I really don’t care what others think” sentiments than I have had in the past, but I am much better at that than ever before. Somehow, I sense there are more guys like me out there than anyone might realize!
Did I mention that this is not going to be a fun day? Well, just about thirty minutes ago, the phone rang and I picked it up. It was the local police calling to speak to me. They asked me if I was Mary Nylund’s son. They even got my first name wrong. Given the amount of times they have called and that we have had the same conversation, this surprises me. Then again, it doesn’t, because I remember what and whom they are dealing with, my mother-in-law. Poor soul that she is, at the age of ninety-one and a half, living alone in an apartment less than a mile away, suffering from dementia and the other mental issues she has had most of her life that were never dealt with, and we get the news that once again she has fallen and is being taken by ambulance to the hospital. At the risk of seeming to be cold-hearted, I must say that my mother-in-law’s hobby has always been her health related, medical issues. They are the driving force of her existence, her claim to fame, and her way of getting attention. Years ago, this phone call would have elicited a different response from us, but the frequency of the, as I call it, “hangnail/911/Emergency room” calls has changed our reactions. Through the years we had asked my in-laws to please call us before dialing 911, but that was rarely the case. They were the local 911 “frequent flyers” and so when I received the call today, Mary Kay and I agreed that we would wait a bit before going to the hospital. My father-in-law, God rest his soul, enabled the poor lady and by taking care of her real and perceived needs not only paved her way to being Queen of Highland Park’s ER but also undid himself and frankly undid his own fragile health. He has been gone for over a year, my mother-in-law still calling us frequently to ask where he is. She incessantly thinks he is out drinking with our oldest son. Amusing since I never saw him have more than two beers at a sitting and that was only when we “forced” them upon him at our house since he wasn’t allowed to have anything but non-alcoholic beer at home. I say “forced” because that way “Nana” pretty much had to leave the situation alone since we had instigated it.
Mary Kay did receive a call from Nossi, the sweet caretaker (who my mother-in-law, despite her dementia, and still having a wicked streak, calls “Nazi”) who told us that she was currently in the apartment and felt that my mother-in-law was fine. We figure she will be out of the hospital by early afternoon.
We needed to get over there anyway as the lovely Senior Apartments have been undergoing renovations on an apartment by apartment basis for years. We know that since, until about a year ago, my mom had a beautiful apartment there as well and we were acquainted with the situation. The kitchen is getting redone and we knew that we had to get over there to remove everything from the cupboards so that they could do the work.
So, despite the fact that we thought we had a calm day here, between my silly iPhone issues and my mother-in-law, we are going to have fun. Really?
How early is it appropriate to have a glass of Scotch? The funny thing here is that I am about as close to a teetotaler that you can get and I ask this question!
Oh, wait, where is my blood pressure checking equipment? I need to check that, but perhaps I should wait until later.
I just went to find the granola for breakfast. I realized that some may think that I have made up these stories. The scary thing is that they are only the tip of the iceberg.
Did I mention that Mary Kay is doing crossword puzzles right now? Are we coldhearted?